The Chart explains the mysterious phenomenon of a man who is not interested in sex. Let me save you some time. He’s bored and/or not turned on by what is in front of him.
In fairness, one of the possible culprits listed (biological, emotional, relationship, porn) is actually unrelated to the woman he’s with. I can see medical problems getting in the way of sex. The rest are some variation of she’s just not doing it for me tonight.
Here’s my breakdown of the non-biological rationalizations:
Emotional: A guy’s sex drive is often closely tied to his self-esteem
You know what’s great for that? Sex with a hot new partner.
Relationship: Feelings like anger, resentment, and general dissatisfaction can play havoc… but these issues don’t necessarily sink his libido.
Read: he’s still turned on, just not by you.
Porn: …men are masturbating 50 to 500 percent more than they would normally without Internet porn
Nice fun fact. So I guess he does want sex after all. Imagine that!